4 Things a Man Can Do That a Woman Can’t Get Enough Of

Since the beginning of time, man has searched for a mate. Here’s how to build that relationship you are looking for.

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By Carey David

Since the beginning of time, man has searched for a partner. There was Eve for Adam, Cleopatra and Julius Caesar, and Juliet for Romeo (that didn’t work out so well!) Oh how things have changed and stayed the same! I believe that most men want a meaningful relationship but are unsure of how to go about going from the status of single to happily involved with the fairer sex.

Now, you’re not the type of man looking to skim the surface. You’re the kind of man that is looking to drop anchor and enjoy a deep and mutually satisfying relationship. You’re not looking for a one night stand and want to be more than a +1 for the nice lady at the office who needs an escort for her niece's wedding. A word of warning. This is not the Jiffy Pop popcorn approach. It is not fast, it is not easy, and it will require time and effort on your part. Not to mention using the head above your belt line.

I know men. I am one, and for better or worse, we are attracted to shiny things. Now, there is nothing wrong with appreciating a woman for her beauty, but if you are content to plant in the sandy soil of lust, real love will never take root. Let’s take a look at a few steps on how to build that relationship you are looking for.

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“To thine own self be true.” If you haven’t figured it out, how do you expect her to? You don’t have to have all the answers. We are all a work in progress, but you should have some idea who you are, where you are, and where you want to go even if that course changes over time. What happened the last time someone tried to change you? Oh, I thought so.

Know how you want and need to be loved. Since my separation and divorce, I found out a great deal about myself by reading, The 5 Languages of Love by Gary Chapman. I highly recommend reading the book. At least, check out the app to find out what your love language is. Love may be the universal language, but it sure is misunderstood. Once you understand what you need, you can start to observe your intended’s behaviors to…