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8 Warning Signs She’s Not the Right Woman for You

Feeling unappreciated? Always being blamed for the relationship’s problems? She just may not be the one for you, man.

The Good Men Project
4 min readDec 27, 2019
Photo Credit: Matheus Ferrero on Unsplash

By James Michael Sama

We’ve spent a lot of time discussing things that good men don’t do, as well as things that they need to do better. But we must not forget that there are two sides to relationships and that men need to know what to look out for in women, also. Without fail, every time I publish an article talking about how men ‘should’ act, someone (usually a guy) asks me when I am going to talk about women as well.

The truth is that men are used to pursuing women, so if she shows interest back in our direction, it’s natural to overlook the red flags for the fact that she makes us feel wanted or perhaps how beautiful she is. But we need to discipline ourselves to slow down and be honest — does she display these warning signs?

She doesn’t appreciate anything.

If you’re the type of man who consistently does little things to make her feel special, it’s equally as important that she is the type of woman who shows, in some way, shape or form, that she appreciates your efforts. There are a lot of men out there who are apathetic in their…

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