PinnedMember-onlyContribute to Our Medium Publications: “Hello Love”, “Equality Includes You”, “A Parent Is Born”, “Change Becomes You” and more.We have a vast, interconnected platform that includes 8 publications on Medium, a large social media presence and a main website that reaches millions of people around the world. New contributors welcome! — By The Good Men Project Editors. Updated 4/3/3023 We have a total of 8 publications on Medium. From The Good Men Project: Hello Love (Relationships) — Love changes us. Love makes us human. Change Becomes You (Advice) — Life advice that will (actually) improve your life.Writing4 min readWriting4 min read
Published inHello, Love·5 hours agoMember-onlyWhat Sex Is About for a Married Man?Do you experience sex-hunger with your wife? — By Stuart Motola You want it. You want it bad. Real bad. The desire takes you over. It’s bigger and stronger than you. And when you’re in the vortex of desire, you may not know you’re in it. A client recently said this regarding his experience of desiring sex with…Love3 min readLove3 min read
Published inChange Becomes You·8 hours agoMember-onlyThe Joy of Being WrongWe all know things. Or do we? — By Mike Kitko When I was 300 pounds, suicidal, abusive to my family, and drinking at toxic levels, I thought I had it all figured out. I judged others who didn’t believe what I believed, and heckled others who saw life differently than I did. It didn’t matter how much…Advice6 min readAdvice6 min read
Published inEquality Includes You·11 hours agoMember-onlyBe an Upstander Not a Bystanderand do what must be done — By Edie Weinstein I just returned from spending the day at a fun with a purpose event in my community. It was called Upstanders Day and was sponsored by NOVA (Network Of Victim Assistance) “NOVA was founded in 1974 as Women Organized Against Rape (WOAR). It was the first and…Social Change5 min readSocial Change5 min read
Published inHello, Love·13 hours agoMember-only4 Saving and Spending Solutions for the Opposites Who AttractMoney is often a source of conflict in relationships. — By Brian Page You’re a saver, or at least your partner tells you so. You have a plan for most pennies that you’d stick to if it wasn’t for your spouse. At least, that’s what you tell yourself. Your spouse is a spender. She doesn’t feel like it’s much of…Budget6 min readBudget6 min read
Published inChange Becomes You·15 hours agoMember-onlyTalking With Friends About Money — 15 Dos & Don’tsPeople are often not comfortable with sharing their exact finances when you’re asking the questions but not talking about your specific numbers. — By Marjolein Dilven Talking with friends about money is important. Not only with your significant other but also with your friends. It’s just another topic of conversation. Let’s line them up with topics like work or dating, as it is just as important.Advice6 min readAdvice6 min read
Published inHello, Love·1 day agoMember-onlyHow Do I Date When My Mental Health Gets In The Way?I’m getting treatment for it but the treatment isn’t that effective and I don’t know why. — By Harris O’Malley Hello Dr. I’m 23 years old and have OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder) which is a mental disorder. I’ll come to this in a minute. I’m getting treatment for it but the treatment isn’t that effective and I don’t know why. …Dating11 min readDating11 min read
Published inChange Becomes You·1 day agoMember-onlyTwo Painters in the RingWinning isn’t everything. — By Eric Maisel [In this series of posts, I want to introduce you to a certain idea, metaphor, and reality: The International Bohemian Highway. Millions of people who do not fit comfortably into a conventional life are fellow travelers on this highway. I hope that this series of posts paints…Advice5 min readAdvice5 min read
Published inEquality Includes You·1 day agoMember-onlyIntimate Partner Violence Against Men — The Overlooked VictimsThe toll on men is substantial. — By Surrinder Singh Breaking free from the confines of traditional narratives, it’s time to confront an overlooked reality: men can also be victims of intimate partner violence (IPV). Within the privacy of our own homes, a harrowing reality often remains concealed. Intimate partner violence (IPV), also known as domestic violence…Violence6 min readViolence6 min read
Published inHello, Love·1 day agoMember-onlyHealing Together: A Guide to Rebuilding Trust After Emotional InfidelityRegarding relationships, trust is one of the most important elements for a strong and stable connection. — By Jacob Maslow Regarding relationships, trust is one of the most important elements for a strong and stable connection. Unfortunately, this trust can be shattered at times by emotional infidelity, which involves forming a deep emotional bond with someone outside the relationship. …Relationships16 min readRelationships16 min read