Birthdays aren’t really about the day you were born;. They are for the present, a precious moment that never lasts, gone before it starts, but it takes a whole year to arrive. — By Tim Clark We (my wife and I) have a friend who is fifty years old today. She is having a party, and is clearly excited at the thought of having lived for half a century. There is going to be music, possibly dancing, and a food truck. She seems…