Dear Spouse: I Can’t Get Close Until You Back Off

She chases. He retreats. This pattern destroys marriages. Steve Horsmon intervenes.

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By Steve Horsmon

Jane: “Why do you always do that?”
John: “Do what?”
Jane: “You ignore me. Everything is more important to you than me.”
John: “No, it’s not.”
Jane: “We need to talk about this. You’re doing it now.”…