In Marriage, He Refused To Change — and That Cost Him Everything, Starting with Trust

He expected her to adjust to his “correct” way of thinking, feeling, and behaving.

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Men (I) Have a Problem

And I think maybe women have this same problem but because of the state of the world in which we live (where men sometimes literally believe they’re better than women), I think the male version is worse.

The Thing About Trust

I don’t like to sound like I know everything, because I don’t know anything about you or your life or what you think and feel.

You’re Like a Child

And in EVERY other situation in life, I’d tell you that’s a good thing. Kids laugh 200–300 times a day and love life and are happy and innocent and free. Adults are miserable.

About Matthew Fray

Matthew Fray is a relationship coach and writer who leans on the lessons of his failed marriage and divorce to help others avoid making the same mistakes he did. He got divorced because he left dishes by the sink. Fray writes about that and more on his blog Must Be This Tall To Ride.

We're having a conversation about the changing roles of men in the 21st century. Main site is https://goodmenproject.com Email us info@goodmenproject.com

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