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Satisfying These Three Needs Makes Her Feel Loved
Deep, down inside, we have a longing to fulfill three basic needs. Are you meeting your partners’ desires?
Some of the basics needs you require to be met with the people you’re in a relationship with are the need for inclusion, for control and for affection.
You might immediately disagree with one or more of those three. Why? You may argue you are not a person who desires or even cares to have control or affection in your life. You may even protest you don’t need to be included in anything.
I can understand when someone has had some negative experiences in the past. Those experiences then help to shape how a person would view these three needs.
Despite the fact you’ve endured negative experiences, it doesn’t mean deep down within you, a desire for you, or your partner to have these needs met doesn’t exist. We are human beings who were created for relationships and within relationships, assessments and conclusions are made.
Most times, these assessments and conclusions have been based upon an isolated event. Someone said something unkind. You feel as if you and your ideas were ignored or dismissed.
